With Gratitude

My dad passed away suddenly about 3 weeks ago. It was a shock to us all, without any real good byes. I can't really do more than give the facts right now, and I suppose this isn't the place. However, I just wanted to say thank you.

I've prayed all my life for a friend. Just one friend. One that I could talk to, confide in, and lean into when I needed help, and do the same in return for her. I was almost into my 30's before I met her. And "her" turned out to be "them". I have found myself surrounded by this incredible group of people. A group, mostly comprised of women, but one's who give and bless and love, without even realizing what they are actually doing.

I'll talk directly to you. Yes, you. If you're reading this, you're probably one of them. You brought food, you came to the funeral home, you text me or called me. You prayed for me. I felt it. I probably didn't answer your messages. This was all very overwhelming for me. But I felt it! I can't quite explain how you choosing to be a part of a rally that lifted me up, and reassured me that I was not alone, mattered. I might not have seen you, or known exactly what you did for me. But I want you to know that you matter. Grief floods, crashes against you, disorients you from all you think that you know about life. But we (you) choose to step out, sometimes for someone you might only know minimally, you show Christ. The very one we're called to be like, you become. You help to right what's wrong, at least for the moment. And for the record, at least for me, you helped me to continue to stand up straight. I want you to know that even if I forget to say it, or don't get the chance (or think I did, when I really didn't), I am grateful for every spoken prayer, and every other picture of love you showed to me and to my family.

I'll close with this. Don't ever think you've got nothing to offer. Don't presume to think that God did not equip you with the ability to show compassion, in whatever manner is appropriate at the time. Don't choose to not send that card or text. Don't hesitate to call and be a "bother". Because even if they don't answer, or call you back, you added one more brick to the wall of protection and love that people who grieve need to lean against. Reach out and show Jesus at every opportunity.

Thank you again. My family was overwhelmed with your enormous show of support!

Sincerely,

Jen